Marriage or cohabitation?

      Cohabitation is not criminalized in today's society, but also becomes an alternative to marriage. Many couples prefer to live so for a shorter or longer period of time. If at the start is a kind of "trial marriage", later becoming simply a way of life in two.

     The reasons that motivate them to live in cohabiting are different: age - too young or too advanced for marriage, one partner has been married, the desire to know more before they make the decisive step, illusion of freedom (if not working, "you take your toys and go"), involvement of family, relatives, etc. On the other hand, marriage signifies the step to maturity and responsibility. It comes with many years of tradition, and habits that's hard to say no (wedding dress, wedding rings, religious wedding, etc.), with the prospect of a different status in society ... Kinda hard to compete, right?

     Unfortunately, love is no longer the engine causing two people to marry, especially after they are living in concubinage. The reasons that motivate them to reach the altar, however, are more material: the desire to do a loan for a house, intent to immigrate (facilitating access for the countries concerned married), age - that have passed 30 years and they want children, but also the fear of loneliness.

      However, if a cohabiting things are clearer, what do you do when, even after several months of marriage, you realize that no longer know the person next to you (so much has changed attitudes partner) or asking what are you doing in that marriage. And then, if unsuccessful communication attempts, the couple comes to divorce or extramarital affairs. Love is replaced by hatred and the beautiful relationship which was at first not even the memories remain. Reproaches and insults delete everything that was once beautiful and sincere.  Worse is that sometimes breakup turns into a real circus in which the protagonists lose even the last shred of humanity. And then easier - I think - can recover a cohabiting relationship than a marriage, because it requires only the involvement of people directly involved: the two partners.

     Marriage and cohabitation each have advantages and disadvantages, depending on what he wants each person. Freedom offered by cohabitation can be seen as an advantage by some and by others as a disadvantage and the stability provided by marriage is felt either as a "deprivation of liberty", or as a blessing. What do you choose?

What makes you happy?

            There are times in life when every person feels hopeless. When you have the impression that all the bad things happening to you, everything goes wrong, nobody can help, no one understands and you don’t see any way out. Do not despair! Ask yourself what makes you happy. For what or for whom life worth living? What causes you to wake up and take it over again? What / who makes you smile or laugh? Who or what makes you proud of yourself? What do you enjoy doing? What is your favorite food/dessert? What you wanted to become when you were little? These are just some questions to answer when you are very depressed.

            I also used some of these questions when I was depressed. So, my life worth living, because I have a family that I love, I have some friends who like me and I like them, too and I like my job (almost always). I am proud of my accomplishments, but above all I am proud of my family. Although I had many problems in the past, I have the family that I wanted and I'm proud of it. Also, I enjoy reading, dancing, writing, to watch the sunrise, traveling and more. I always wanted to visit America, a goal still unmet.

One of the things that makes me smile is my cat. He needed so much affection, that is always ready to be petted. Sometimes entering shriveling under the blanket next to us, sleeping like a human. Another time comes stealthily and gives paw over the hand, asking us to play with him.

Among my favorite desserts include ice cream, cookies, chocolate cake and fruit that I like most are the grapes. My favorite color is blue and when I was little I wanted to become a ballerina. Favorite moment of the day's sunrise, I like to feel the smell of grass in the morning and hear the noises made by birds, to see the rainbow after a summer rain, to watch the flight of butterflies, to ride, to climb in trees and many others.

So, a lot of things make me happy. What makes you happy?

Why do birds fall, Doc?

United States, Brazil, New Zealand and Europe have faced since the beginning of 2011 with more cases of bird or fish that have died, but these deaths can be explained. But experts continue to deny that events could be correlated, arguing that such cases have occurred in the past - A Lapland Longspurs Tragedy (Thomas S Roberts) . On 13-14 March 1904, an article in the Quarterly Journal of Ornithology reported at least 750,000 migrating Lapland Longspurs were found dead in Worthington, Minnesota. The dead birds were sprawled over 1,500 square miles (http://www.bbc.co.uk/news).

An overview of all the places in the world with strange deaths of birds and fish can be obtained at http://www.buzzfeed.com/awesomer/track-recent-mass-animal-deaths-using-google-maps. The first thing to note is that almost all regions are near water (seas, oceans, rivers or lakes). 

Also, in Romania there were such phenomena. After cases in Constanta and Bucharest, and the Roman town on the banks of Moldova, appeared strange phenomenon of birds succumbing http://www.adevarul.ro/locale/piatra_neamt/Neamt_Peisaj_sinistru_cu_zeci_de_ciori_moarte_in_parcul_din_Roman_-FOTO_0_407959822.html.

Source: www.descopera.ro

Conspiracy theorists have rushed to conclude that the apocalypse is nigh, while other people have mooted the idea of collisions with UFOs, or government testing of satellite-powered energy weapons http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-12135380.  The latest theory hardly seems hazardous considering the latest technological breakthroughs. For example, http://www.descopera.ro find out about the fact that the U.S. Air Force has developed a controversial project, with canopy science fiction, able to exhibit violent and unexpected changes in climate. It's mysterious HAARP program (Research Program for High Frequency Active Auroral). Besides getting some abrupt changes in climate, HAARP antennas can be utilized for other purposes, such as ozone generation, and actions such as the disintegration of objects, inducing instantaneous combustion, changing patterns of the brain, inducing a specific behavior of various diseases and biological challenge.

           Among the causes of strange phenomena in recent times is also mentioned the near of  Nibiru to Earth. Known since antiquity as the Planet of the Gods, then called Nemesis, Xena, Eris and discovered by NASA under the name of Planet X or UB - 313 it could be that planet mentioned in Sumerian texts. When passing near Earth, in 2012, would trigger the magnetic poles reverse, global warming, stopping the rotational movement for three days, and then reversing the direction of rotation (http://www.vestic.ro ). More about this mysterious planet can be found at http://astrobiology.nasa.gov , Nibiru and Doomsday 2012: Questions and Answers or http://www.realitatea.net/realitatea-net-va-prezinta-conspiratii -Famous - Episode-2 - Nibiru planet-and-2012_577392.html.